Its Important To Me That You Said That, Because…
Thursday, January 17th, 2008Tonight, in an improv play group, we were having trouble with establishing relationships that anyone cared about, so we ran an exercise where every line except the first began with, “Its important to me that you said that, because…”
I love that one, because you really can’t go more than three lines before you’re forced to really start defining relationships.
Before:
“Frank, can you help me get my head out of this hole?”
“Sure, boss, let me get the crow bar”
Okay, sure, it sounds like it might be a funny scene, but I don’t really care about the characters.
Now:
“Frank, can you help me get my head out of this hole?”
“Its important to me that you said that, boss, because I’ve been waiting for you to need my help! Let me get the crowbar!”
Okay, already, we have a second level to the scene, and one that has a lot more staying power than the crow bar story.
Anyway, doing one scene in that style was enough to really get me in the mind-set of listening to my partner before going into my head for new ideas, something that I see way too many of us do all the time.